Sunday, August 22, 2004

how 1 summer can change a person's life. watch the notebook, or ask me about my summer and i'll tell you :)

i'd write my summer story here, but it's not easy to do it with one hand... so just wait yah?
how 1 summer can change a person's life. watch the notebook, or ask me about my summer and i'll tell you :)

i'd write my summer story here, but it's not easy to do it with one hand... so just wait yah?

Tuesday, August 03, 2004

OOOH! long absence long absence.

val says, "you can tell that a couple is compatible when they bring out the best in each other." i think i've heard it before, but only now have i seriously considered the wisdom in this short sentence. what does it mean to bring out the best in someone? it is not about pushing someone to his limit, or having him do everything humanly possible to maintain a relationship. it is about giving each other the space to grow, providing the support necessary to help each other realize your dreams. it is about giving someone confidence, dignity and comfort.

hmm. don't think i'm anywhere close to being like that. :P but we all try our darnedness don't we?